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Love is a Battlefield

The heart has become a battlefield between love and lust. The more lust dominates the heart, the less the heart experiences the nuptial meaning of the body. It becomes less sensitive to the gift of the person, which expresses that meaning in the mutual relations of man and woman. Certainly, that lust which Christ speaks of in Matthew 5:27-28 appears in many forms in the human heart. It is not always plain and obvious. Sometimes it is concealed, so that it passes itself off as love, although it changes its true profile and dims the limpidity of the gift in the mutual relationship of persons. Does this mean that it is our duty to distrust the human heart? No! It only means that we must keep it under control.

Pope John Paul II, Theology of the Body (General Audience, July 23, 1980)

that tea. and those snacks.

I stopped at a convenience store because I needed to poke in a bit of window trim that had come loose on my in-laws’ aging van, which they have graciously let my wife and I use indefinitely–and which I was driving because our recently purchased car was in the shop.  So I was arguably preoccupied.

Still, I had the ice from a large iced tea I had purchased half a mile up the hot highway; and I had other snacks I bought to make it worth a card swipe, having no cash.  All understandable.  And, because I hate to use someone’s space and not at least genuflect in the direction of their commercial interests, I walked inside, telling myself I would pick up a bottled tea to pour in the ice.

So why did I walk out with two bags of snacks, too?  Bags I didn’t want, really?  Bags which neither spared me needing dinner, later, nor helped to contribute to any goal, nor satisfied any strange-place curiosity, nor were a rarely-found favorite, nor provided me any reasonable good?

Because I saw them and I craved.

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